{"id":34133,"date":"2024-10-14T01:03:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-14T08:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/?p=34133"},"modified":"2024-09-18T08:42:15","modified_gmt":"2024-09-18T15:42:15","slug":"raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/","title":{"rendered":"The Rogue, Rafting, and Raising the Next Generation of River Rats"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My earliest memories involve rolling around in a muddy riverbank, napping in the footwell of a raft on the San Juan River, Russian olive thorns poking sunburnt skin. I&#8217;ve identified as a river rat for all my 44 years, as a kayaker for 35 years, as a river guide for 25 years, and as a parent for six. My wife Susan and I, like parents all over the world, strive to instill values and skills in our children that will guide them throughout their lives. A recent trip down the Rogue was proof again that extended periods in nature are an essential part of raising children who are capable and deeply connected to the world around them. It was also just a fun time outside.<\/p>\n<p>For the 119th time on this six-day raft trip down the Rogue, I found myself smiling at the sound of my daughter Juniper\u2019s voice, harmonizing(ish) with her \u201ccousin\u201d Gaia and \u201cAuntie\u201d Carmen. Their voices blended in a jaunty, hearty rendition of \u201cMuddy River\u201d by Katie Lee. Juniper was perched in the bow of her adopted family\u2019s raft, singing with a confidence that seemed to grow with each verse.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34164 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32-1000x667.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130542\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-32-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Now if I had a Mexican Hat,<br \/>\nI wouldn\u2019t put it on.<br \/>\nI\u2019d jump right in<br \/>\nfrom its broad brim<br \/>\nand skim down the San Juan. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>And if somebody made for me,<br \/>\na good ol\u2019 gooseneck pie,<br \/>\nI\u2019d rather float on down its throat<br \/>\nin a river boat says I!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Oh, oooh, Oh! Muddy River.<br \/>\nOh, oooh, Oh! on your way down to the sea!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t live anywhere near the silt-laden desert rivers that Katie Lee so passionately devoted her music to, and Juniper has never touched the waters of the San Juan. Yet, her love for wild rivers is real, born from the stories we\u2019ve shared and the experiences we\u2019ve created together. As she sang, I was transported back to my own childhood, floating and swimming the \u201cSand Wind\u201d from Bluff, Utah, past Mexican Hat, through the Gooseneck canyons to Clay Hills near Lake Powell. The deep shade of those twisting canyons, the feel of the river\u2019s current, the sound of the water against the boat\u2014all of it came rushing back as I listened to my daughter sing the cowboy ballads of my youth.<\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019ll take your rapids and your roar<br \/>\nlike they ain\u2019t never been took before<br \/>\nand come around and back for more<br \/>\n\u2019cause, you don\u2019t worry me!<\/em><\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-34133 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-31\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130531\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-31-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-33\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130552\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-33-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-53\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130936\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-53-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Gaia, just a few months older than Juniper, is the daughter of my best friend, Travis Winn\u2014hence the \u201ccousin\u201d status. Carmen, Travis\u2019s sister, has memorized most of Katie Lee\u2019s catalogue and has fully embraced her role as the Cool Aunt. She taught the girls these lyrics, singing with them again and again, and has also taken on the role of an adventurous guide\u2014swimming, reading stories on the sand-mat, rowing the girls through big rapids, and generally being an awesome role model.<\/p>\n<p>This is the first summer that one of them\u2014Juniper\u2014has shown a real affinity for being a River Rat. While Susan and I started taking our kids on mellow multi-day raft trips when they were just five to seven months old, it feels like a turning point for our family.<\/p>\n<p>Is it her growing confidence in swimming ten feet or more from shore or boat? Is it her love of flipping our pack raft in camp eddies? Or is it simply that, at 6\u00bd years old, she\u2019s becoming more independent, with friends to pal around with? I sometimes wonder if I\u2019m projecting my own identification with river life onto my children, but then I see the genuine joy and curiosity in Juniper\u2019s eyes, and I know that this connection is hers.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34169 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37-1000x667.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130654\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-37-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At camp one evening, the girls played for hours, building and breaching dams with sticks, rocks, and five-gallon bailing buckets. Their excitement was infectious as they shouted, \u201cAgain! Again! Again!\u201d and \u201cWe\u2019ll bust out Boulder Dam!\u201d\u2014a reference to Hoover Dam, renamed upon its completion in 1931.<\/p>\n<p>While Juniper doesn\u2019t yet understand the complexities of water politics in the Western US, we\u2019re attempting to expose her to the intricacies and hypocrisies of the society we live in. I imagine and hope that these early glimpses into environmental history, coupled with the joy she experiences in these exquisite canyons, will open her heart and mind to the importance of protecting wild places.<\/p>\n<p>As parents, we often find ourselves asking, \u201cWho are these little creatures becoming? What are we cultivating here?\u201d When Susan and I take a moment to breathe amidst the hustle of pick-ups and drop-offs, tantrums, packing lunches, illnesses, and childcare cancellations, we inevitably reflect on our parenting choices. Are we doing this right? Are we giving our kids the tools they need to navigate the world?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it feels like we\u2019re screwing up. We strive to empower our children with courage, kindness, humility, patience, and humor, yet\u00a0 the simplest of tasks\u2014like brushing teeth\u2014can bring moments of intense frustration. But then we remember that adventure is a grand teacher with the ultimate curriculum for life.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-2' class='gallery galleryid-34133 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-41\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130730\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-41-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-55\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130958\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-55-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-28\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130458\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-28-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>River trips, in particular, are a microcosm of life\u2014a quintessential metaphor for the journey we\u2019re all on. Our family has certainly embraced the outdoorsy lifestyle, and I truly believe that wilderness, and our journeys through it, is a direct path to a balanced and regulated nervous system.<\/p>\n<p>And what about Jasper, our youngest, who sleeps peacefully on my chest, wrapped in a damp sarong, under the shade of a granite cliff? Just like his older sister, we\u2019ve been taking Jasper on multi-day rafting trips since he was four months old. He\u2019s floated the Ruby Horse Thief, Lower Deschutes, John Day, Grande Ronde (twice), and now the Rogue. Each of these journeys has left its mark on him, even if they aren\u2019t yet clear memories. I\u2019m sure the stories we tell about these trips will shape his understanding of what it means to be a River Rat, different from his sister\u2019s but equally profound.<\/p>\n<p>Even so, I wonder, what can I teach him about this place and our place in it? Perhaps I have too many precious preconceptions about what I hope these kids will learn. Dozing in a tethered packraft with my son, I realize that sometimes, the most important lesson is simply learning to \u201clet go.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34162 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30-1000x667.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130521\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-30-1536x1024.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/>Jasper looks up to his sister so much, picking up on all her little cues\u2014her preferences, hesitations, and excitements. For both, I think we\u2019ve done well in exposing them to risky play, a critical component of their development. They\u2019ve both learned that it\u2019s their responsibility to exercise caution, to assess risk, and to make decisions accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, we sometimes let our kids get hurt\u2014within reason, of course. Just as Mom and Dad spot Juniper when she\u2019s bouldering, Juniper has become a good spotter for Jasper. One of his favorite things to do is jump off things\u2014boulders, logs, chairs, decks, tables. If there\u2019s something he wants to jump off, he asks for a hand, and we do it together.<\/p>\n<p>This approach to parenting, one that embraces the unpredictability of nature and the lessons it offers, is not without its challenges. It\u2019s often when we are confronted with limited time and few resources that we question ourselves. We wonder if we\u2019re doing enough; if we\u2019re making the right choices. But then there are moments of clarity, moments when we see the light in our children\u2019s eyes, the joy they find in exploring the world around them. It\u2019s in these moments that we see the fruits of our labor, the values and skills we\u2019ve worked so hard to instill in them coming to life.<\/p>\n<p>Parenting should never be about perfection. It\u2019s about being present, about guiding our children through the highs and lows of life, and about giving them the tools they need to navigate the world on their own. It\u2019s about finding balance\u2014between risk and safety, independence and guidance, adventure and caution.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-3' class='gallery galleryid-34133 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-21\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130259\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-21-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-40\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130721\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-40-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-20\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130249\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-20-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-08\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130036\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-08-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>At the end of one particularly hot and long day, everyone felt exhausted. Tempers were short, tears were shed, and needs were misunderstood. Does anyone relate to this? Both of our kids were at full tantrum, and my instinctual response was to laugh at a tearful and ridiculous demand for a glue stick to adhere a leaf to a rock. I could only offer a small, sad smile, crouch down and open my arms for a hug. Sand-encrusted tears were wiped off, wet clothes were changed, and electrolytes were drunk. My big kiddo snuggled into our collapsible camp chair with me.<\/p>\n<p>As I told her a story about a Pirate Princess, it occurred to me that resilience isn\u2019t taught with admonishments, with \u201cshould\u201d and \u201cshouldn\u2019t.\u201d Our little river rats need to feel safe to try things and trust that we can weather storms together. Sometimes, the storms are great monsoons that shake the cottonwoods. Sometimes, they are emotional tempests of unknown origin. Still, it is our responsibility as guides and parents to confidently and compassionately acknowledge and assuage those fears.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, we hiked up Tate Creek, complete with log walks, bouldering, wet hiking, bug swatting, and lots of snacks. For Juniper, every new obstacle was bigger than the last, more challenging, more exciting. At the top of one tough log\/boulder scramble, she shouted, \u201cThese are good climbing shoes!\u201d (Chacos with socks). And as she swam across the big pool and pulled herself up the rope ladder next to Tate Creek Waterslide, she looked back at me as if to say, \u201cAm I doing this right?\u201d. I just smiled and gave her a big thumbs-up.<\/p>\n<p>Later, when Susan and I climbed up and slid down the slide, Juniper shouted, \u201cWoo-hoo Mom!\u201d and \u201cGood Job, Dad!\u201d. River rat or not, I guess we\u2019re all doing something right.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-4' class='gallery galleryid-34133 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-24\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130347\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-24-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-14\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130140\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-14-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/community.nrs.com\/duct-tape\/2024\/10\/14\/raising-the-next-generation-of-river-rats\/dtd_river-rat-kiddos_adam-elliott-07\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/d2kl15j267vxtq.cloudfront.net\/duct-tape\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/16130027\/DTD_River-Rat-Kiddos_Adam-Elliott-07-100x100.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a 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